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Ask a Sexpert
Ask a Sexpert is designed to provide information about safe sex, HIV, sexually transmitted infections and other sexuality and sexual health issues. All questions are answered by a New Zealand AIDS Foundation staff member first, before other users can add their own response. Ask a Sexpert is not a substitute for advice from a health professional.
i want my dick to be big . Is there any way through which I can make it big and spray more sperm out of it?
View responses (1)my dick is curved and a lil more than 15cms .. will it be a problem during sexual intercourse?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 29 July 2010
There are few penises that are completely straight, with curves seen in all directions. There is no “normal” shaped penis.
is having little white dots/bumps on the lip of the head of the penis a symptom of an sti
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 29 July 2010
They could be something quite common and naturally occurring called pearly penile papules, white coloured skin tags that appear around the rim of the penis head. Get your doctor to check them out though - never ignore bumps and lumps on your penis.
Should I pull my foreskin back when I'm putting a condom on or leave it covering my knob? I tried asking my friends but they said they are circumcised so they don't have this problem
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 29 July 2010
It depends on how long your foreskin is. If you have a short or medium length foreskin, pull it back before rolling the condom on. If you have a long foreskin (where the skin covers most of your penis head when you are hard) you need to leave the foreskin forward. One way to do this is the “two hand job” : unroll the condom about 1 cm and put two fingers from each hand under each side. Stretch it over the head and part way down the shaft and gently unroll to the base. It’s great that you’re using condoms, and great that you have friends you can have these discussions with.
How can I delay ejaculation?
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 13 July 2010
There are several methods: one is to masturbate before sex so that it’ll take you longer to cum again. Another is to masturbate and see how long you can delay ejaculation: this way you will begin to learn to be aware of an impending orgasm. Stopping for a few moments, or changing positions can also help.
What else should I use beside Lube?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 26 July 2010
Water-based or silicone-based lubes are safe to use with condoms but oil-based lubes like vaseline will make the condom fall apart. Lube should always be used with a condom.
Ran out of Lube and have been using a mixture of shower gel & cooking oil (masturbating only). This morning, I've noticed my dick head was quite sensitive. Last night I had a great masti-session so ain't sure if its down to that as its never happened before. Should I just stop using oil/shower gel and buy some proper lube? Cheers.
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 29 July 2010
Buying some proper lube is likely to help,yes. The shower gel is likely to have perfumes and chemicals in that won’t be doing your penis any good.
Can you stop sending me condoms please?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 26 July 2010
Please send your name and address to .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address) and we will remove them.
Hi, very recently I had an encounter with a sex worker. While I did wear a condon while having sex with her. She did give me oral sex without me wearing a condom. Am I at risk of contacting HIV if she might be HIV positive?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 26 July 2010
Wearing a condom for sex is around 98% effective for preventing the transmission of HIV. There is no risk of getting HIV from receiving oral sex.
will it hurt the first time
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 22 June 2010
I’m not sure if you’re talking about anal or vaginal sex, but neither should hurt. Before penetration 20 minutes of foreplay is recommended and even then it’s a good idea to go slowly. Lubricant is also recommended.
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arpaio, 30 July 2010
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