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Ask a Sexpert is designed to provide information about safe sex, HIV, sexually transmitted infections and other sexuality and sexual health issues. All questions are answered by a New Zealand AIDS Foundation staff member first, before other users can add their own response. Ask a Sexpert is not a substitute for advice from a health professional.
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View responses (1)What's the best comdom brand? What's the best type of comdom to give my girlfriend ths best orgasm?
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 18 December 2009
One that feels good for both of you - and heaps of water based or silicone lube. A slightly thicker condom is stronger and will also slow you down (stop you from coming too soon).
Nigel, 11 March 2010
Silicone lube is nicest I reckon - all the slip and none of the stickiness
How do you gave sex with a chick? What whole is best? Thanks.
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 18 December 2009
Your female partner will guide you based on what feels mutually pleasurable.
How many wholes does a vagina have? And what are the differences if so? Thanks
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Im 20, professional guy, always have sex after midnight.. but i just cant seem to get it up before then, is there any way to re-trace my clock back?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 18 December 2009
As you suggest, your body is now used to this time. We suggest you gradually try and make the time earlier and earlier. If you don’t masturbate for at least several days you’re more likely to jump to attention when you want to.
When should you worry about getting a aids test. I have had plenty of STI tests but never have been offered an HIV or Syphilis test.
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 18 December 2009
If you don’t always use a condom it’s even more important. If you want an HIV or syphilis test you can request them from your doctor or at sexual health. If they ask why, just reply that you just want to be sure and put your mind at ease.
what if a guy can only put his knob in you not the full cock?
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 18 December 2009
If he isn’t wearing a condom there is still risk from his precum and sexually transmitted infections that he might have that you can’t see. More foreplay is likely to be required so that he can get most of his penis in.
Hey look, my partner had little goosebump-like things on his balls, is this an STI ? We have unprotected sex, but I havn't got them, so is it? Ta'
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 18 December 2009
They sound like hair follicles but they could be several other things - best to have them checked out by a doctor or at your local sexual health clinic.
Hi, I am having a problem during intercourse with my wife that I lose my erection while trying to wear condoms. I am 37 year old male.
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 18 December 2009
It’s not unusual for men to have issues maintaining an erection when first using condoms. Try thinner condoms for more sensation and enough but not too much lube. To “condition” yourself to condom use, don’t have sex or masturbate for up to a week and then masturbate with a condom on so you get to know how they feel. After a while, the sight of a condom will mean action and you’re more likely to respond quickly and stay hard.
My partner of 3 years and I use condoms as our birth control, as I don't react well to the pill and have a genetic predisposition to blood-clots, which also prevents me from using IUDs. That being said, we have the issue of condoms coming loose during sex. If I'm on top, or he is on top, it's usually okay, but if we try any other positions, the condom nearly always comes off! Do you have any suggestions?
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 18 December 2009
It sounds to us like the condom isn’t a good fit. Your partner might like to try a closer fitting condom so that it’s more likely to stay on especially during vigorous sex and in different positions.
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The Sexpert, 18 December 2009
Family Planning New Zealand can supply you with Femidoms (3 for $14.95)