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Ask a Sexpert
Ask a Sexpert is designed to provide information about safe sex, HIV, sexually transmitted infections and other sexuality and sexual health issues. All questions are answered by a New Zealand AIDS Foundation staff member first, before other users can add their own response. Ask a Sexpert is not a substitute for advice from a health professional.
hi is it normal during sex to feel a pain in your lower abdomen.lately every time i have sex it feels like his penis is hitting something inside me
View responses (2)hi i have just lost mt viginty to my boy friend but when i did i didnt feel enything i still have the same fellings for him every time we do it its the same i dont love him eny moro or less do you know why ????????
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
Sex isn’t always what you expect it to be - perhaps your boyfriend is taking care of his own sexual needs and not paying enough attention to yours. Generally speaking, women take longer to become aroused than men.
what are the red spots on my dick
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
It could be lots of things - or nothing serious. Go to you local GP or local Sexual Health service and get checked out.
wot is the best sexual pleasure like tit fuck and stuff like that
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
Whatever you and your partner decide to do based on exploring together. What is most pleasurable will vary from one person to another.
can u get hiv from drinking cum
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
Oral sex is considered to be low risk and getting semen in your mouth increases that risk to a degree. To minimise the risk make sure you don’t have any significant broken skin in your mouth before oral sex and of you get semen in your mouth swallow or spit quickly.
is there any posibility to get hiv from oral sex
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
Oral sex is low low risk but not no risk. Very few people have been infected with HIV this way. To minimise the chance make sure there is no significant broken skin in your mouth and spit or swallow quickly if you get semen in your mouth.
Hey - I've been told to get tested for HIV/STI every few months , but I'm unsure if going to the local doctor is appropriate ? What would I say to them ? I'm just unsure an abit uncomfortable with the situation .
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
You can explain that you are sexually active and want regular check-ups. Your local Sexual Health centre might be an option in terms of comfort.
i am 14 and started mastrubation at age of 12 i mastrubate once or twice a day but nowadays when i mastrubate i am not getting the same plesure which i used to get at the age of 12
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
The thrill tends to fade a little over time - it isn’t new anymore. Maybe if you do it less then it’ll be more of an event when you do.
how do you use lube
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
Lube is used to make penetrative sex with a condom more pleasurable. Put plenty on the outside of the condom and on the area you’ll be penetrating. It can also be used for foreplay and masturbation (solo or with others).
Hey, my boyfriend is thinking of getting a genital piercing. Ive read that condoms are fine and will hold up to piercings BUT im allergic to latex so we use non latex ones.. And im told they're less "streachy" and migt break or rip. Is this true?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
Your boyfriend can try masturbating with a non-latex condom on and see how it holds up.
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The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
No it isn’t normal - I suggest you consult your GP, local Sexual Health or Family Planning centre.