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Ask a Sexpert
Ask a Sexpert is designed to provide information about safe sex, HIV, sexually transmitted infections and other sexuality and sexual health issues. All questions are answered by a New Zealand AIDS Foundation staff member first, before other users can add their own response. Ask a Sexpert is not a substitute for advice from a health professional.
Hi.. I ejaculate instantly after pop into the vagina. How can I stop premature ejaculation? or how can I make sex longer?
View responses (1)Is Masturbation healthy
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
It’s completely healthy.
i get alot of erections how can i minimise getting them when i least want it
View responses (1)gyuchan, 3 June 2010
sometimes you just cant help it, especially during puberty
what you could do is when you get one , cover it with a folder or bag or something
that way nobody will know
bum sex hurts is tht normal
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
It shouldn’t hurt - sounds like you need more foreplay ( gentle touching and fingering) and more lube for at least 20 minutes before penetration.
whats a femidon?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
A femidom is a female condom. You can find out more about it here:
id like to know more about sponsorship but i cant ujpload my proposal on the website.
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
Try sending it to my e-mail address below:
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Ive requested condoms via this site 4 times now and nothing has ever shown up!! Why??
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
There has been a huge demand - please be patient and they will turn up.
i'm 17 and have only had one person who can make me cum, it always took lots of effort thou and i don't know how to get a full blown orgasm as its always been from clit stimulation and not all that amazin. how do i get to the next level
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
A lot depends on the skill of your partner - and the pointers you can give them. The time it takes to achieve an orgasm varies from one individual to another.
can i run out of sperm
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
No - you might temporarily run dry but there’ll always be more.
how do you have sex
View responses (3)The Sexpert, 27 May 2010
Meet someone you like, get very close and follow your instincts. Take it slow and respect the other person’s limits. And remember to use condoms and lube if penetration is involved.
mike, 6 June 2010
will it hurt if u fuck someoone up the arse ??
Shelly, 18 July 2010
Ask your mum!
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The Sexpert, 26 July 2010
There are several methods: one is to masturbate before sex so that it’ll take you longer to cum again. Another is to masturbate and see how long you can delay ejaculation: this way you will begin to learn to be aware of an impending orgasm. Stopping for a few moments, or changing positions can also help.