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Ask a Sexpert
Ask a Sexpert is designed to provide information about safe sex, HIV, sexually transmitted infections and other sexuality and sexual health issues. All questions are answered by a New Zealand AIDS Foundation staff member first, before other users can add their own response. Ask a Sexpert is not a substitute for advice from a health professional.
i want my dick to be big . Is there any way through which I can make it big and spray more sperm out of it?
View responses (1)my dick is curved and a lil more than 15cms .. will it be a problem during sexual intercourse?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 29 July 2010
There are few penises that are completely straight, with curves seen in all directions. There is no “normal” shaped penis.
Hi, very recently I had an encounter with a sex worker. While I did wear a condon while having sex with her. She did give me oral sex without me wearing a condom. Am I at risk of contacting HIV if she might be HIV positive?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 26 July 2010
Wearing a condom for sex is around 98% effective for preventing the transmission of HIV. There is no risk of getting HIV from receiving oral sex.
will it hurt the first time
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 22 June 2010
I’m not sure if you’re talking about anal or vaginal sex, but neither should hurt. Before penetration 20 minutes of foreplay is recommended and even then it’s a good idea to go slowly. Lubricant is also recommended.
is it safe to use lube on my cock without a condom?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 22 June 2010
Yes, lube is safe for masturbating but if you are also having penetrative sex a condom is definitely recommended.
i love eating pussy, do i get infected?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 22 June 2010
Oral/vaginal sex is low risk for HIV as long as your mouth has no significant broken skin and there is no menstrual blood present. It is possible to get other sexually transmitted infections and so regular check-ups every three to sox months are recommended.
is masteurbusting increases ones weight
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 22 June 2010
There is no known connection between masturbation and weight gain.
I am 35 years old still single how can i check if i can be father or not i am very much concerned about this. Should i take any medication or consent on this?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 29 July 2010
I suggest you consult your doctor who will be able to arrange any necessary tests for you.
How do I have sex without getting a UTI? Almost every time I have sex I get a UTI and now I'm too worried to ever have sex. I try going to the toilet after sex but even then it doesn't help. What can I do?? I want to be able to enjoy sex.
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 29 July 2010
You’ll need to consult a doctor or sexual health clinic about recurring urinary tract infections.
which is the best spray for women to put on heat by sexually?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 29 July 2010
No spray has been shown to work and it wouldn’t be a substitute for regular foreplay - around 20 minutes of kissing and cuddling, touching an stroking. The idea of being able to arouse someone instantly is a myth.
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arpaio, 30 July 2010
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