Bye Carmen, and Thanks.
- February 1st 2012
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Carmen Rupe passed away in Sydney in December. She was one of the trailblazers for us queers here in NZ and across the Tasman. We owe her a lot.
The Blog
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Grindr Hacked: How Safe Are We Online?
- January 20th 2012
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So Grindr got hacked the other week. So much of our life today happens online, on our phones and computers. Some of us have a lot of naked pics of ourselves out there. How safe is it?
Does HIV Make You a Criminal?
- December 9th 2011
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Sadly there are some places in the world where it does. America is particularly bad at turning people whith HIV into crims. We're incredibly lucky here in NZ, but it's still important to get tested and know if you're poz or neg.
World AIDS Day - Getting to Zero
- December 1st 2011
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December the 1st is World AIDS Day, and UNAIDS this year has the theme of "Getting to Zero". It's a good time to think about what it's all about.
Vintage Porn
- November 20th 2011
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There is so much porn around these days, thanks to the net. But once it wasn't that easy at all, so it was hidden as "art' photography of body-builders.Some of it is still hot, some of it is just weird...
Types Around Town: The Bear
- November 14th 2011
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How many different types of gay man are there? Who knows? It's normal in any society to seek out people we feel comfortable with, make mates, hang out, maybe even fall in love, so we're going to have a look at some of the tribes that inhabit the gay world. Bear Pride started in the 90s, and keeps on growing. Just what makes a gay man a Bear?
Slippery When Wet
- November 3rd 2011
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If you like fucking a guy up the arse, lube makes such a difference for both of you. It will feel so much better. And it means your condoms will stand up to the wear and tear of it all.
I’ll Drink to That
- October 27th 2011
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Just about any big city in the world you can find a gay bar of some sort. They often seem to open and close quickly as the crowd moves, but they're a central part of our life. Gay bars and clubs are a huge part of gay life, for a lot of us they are the main place we meet our mates, find our fucks, or our lovers, and build our world.
What if he says we don’t need to use condoms?
- October 11th 2011
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You know how it goes, you meet a hot guy, you click, and things are going really well. You start to get down and dirty...and he tells you he doesn't like using condoms. How do you handle it?
A Little Kink?
- October 3rd 2011
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There are plenty more icecream flavours than vanilla, and it's the same with sex. You'd be surprised at how many guys like something a little different now and then. Curious? Don't be shy...
You want who?
- September 23rd 2011
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The American government has had a "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" (DADT) policy regarding gays in the military since the 1990s, but President Obama repealed this on Tuesday the 20th of September.
Rugger-Buggers
- September 9th 2011
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Loathe it or love it, the Rugby World Cup is here. We don't all love rugby, but this does mean there will be lots of international rugby fans in the country, and quite a few hot, sweaty, single men looking for fun...
