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Here's where we talk about the things that matter to us, and we cover a lot of ground: Love, art, politics,health, sex, family, friends - and we'd love to hear what you think so feel free to leave a comment.

A Blast From the Past

A Blast From the Past

This video from 1969 made us laugh. We've certainly come a long way in how we talk about sex, but the message is still true!

New Research Shows…

New Research Shows…

A lot of poz guys assume it's fine to fuck with other poz guys without condoms, but some new research shows that they might want to think again about the risks.

Sex and Words

Sex and Words

How do you talk about sex? It's not something our families bring us up to do comfortably, more a thing you learn from your mates. Is it fucking? Or making love? Getting a root? We've got so many ways to describe it. And it matters.

Types Around Town: Twinks

Types Around Town: Twinks

In our first "Types Around Town" we looked at the Bear. Today we're looking at another part of the gay world with the shortest-lived type of gay man there is - the Twink. Sterotypes we know, but hey, the words get used, so why not have fun?

Grindr Hacked: How Safe Are We Online?

Grindr Hacked: How Safe Are We Online?

So Grindr got hacked the other week. So much of our life today happens online, on our phones and computers. Some of us have a lot of naked pics of ourselves out there. How safe is it?

Does HIV Make You a Criminal?

Does HIV Make You a Criminal?

Sadly there are some places in the world where it does. America is particularly bad at turning people whith HIV into crims. We're incredibly lucky here in NZ, but it's still important to get tested and know if you're poz or neg.

Slippery When Wet

Slippery When Wet

If you like fucking a guy up the arse, lube makes such a difference for both of you. It will feel so much better. And it means your condoms will stand up to the wear and tear of it all.

What if he says we don’t need to use condoms?

What if he says we don’t need to use condoms?

You know how it goes, you meet a hot guy, you click, and things are going really well. You start to get down and dirty...and he tells you he doesn't like using condoms. How do you handle it?

A Little Kink?

A Little Kink?

There are plenty more icecream flavours than vanilla, and it's the same with sex. You'd be surprised at how many guys like something a little different now and then. Curious? Don't be shy...

Rugger-Buggers

Rugger-Buggers
  • Get It On!
  • September 9th 2011
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Loathe it or love it, the Rugby World Cup is here. We don't all love rugby, but this does mean there will be lots of international rugby fans in the country, and quite a few hot, sweaty, single men looking for fun...